I've mentioned this in a previous blog, that the bully loses his all of his or her friends because they no longer want to be friends with a cruel human being. The other reason is that maybe they are just afraid that he will bully them next. If it were me, I wouldn't be friends with a bully for the simple reason that I don't want to bring problems to myself because of him. People might call that selfish, but I call it smart because no one in this world likes to get into trouble (I don't know if people are into that), so why be friends with the trouble when he's also rude on top of that.
Cyber bullying can influence more people then just the victim and the bully. We all know about the famous bystander, the guy, girl or dog that watches silently and doesn't intervene. Well... sucks to be him because he could've helped out the victim and avoided a lot of trouble. But this post is mainly talking about the impressions put on others after they find out about the incident (that being the cyber bully incident). And once the bully loses friends, he's not as intimidating because he has no one to back him up.
The bully will also most likely influence people even further that meaning it will reach the cops and they will put surveillance on the bully to make sure he doesn't try anything drastic. That being done, the bully is restricted of many activities that can be interpreted as illegal or harmful such as slap boxing which is played in certain schools for fun (no one gets physically hurt). He will also be despised by most adults with children of the same age.
The victim also influences some people because being depressed or simply sad, no one will want to talk to him. I always avoid the sad people without reason of being sad because I'm not trying to get sad as well, but don't get me wrong, people with a reason deserve a chance.
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-Parents advise when I was younger and pure opinion
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